Winters used to be cold in England. We, my parents especially, spent them watching the wrestling. The wrestling they watched on their black-and-white television sets on Saturday afternoons represented a brief intrusion of life and colour in their otherwise monochrome lives. Their work overalls were faded, the sofa cover—unchanged for years—was faded, their memories of the people they had been before coming to England were fading too. My parents, their whole generation, treadmilled away the best years of their lives toiling in factories for shoddy paypackets. A life of drudgery, of deformed spines, of chronic arthritis, of severed hands. They bit their lips and put up with the pain. They had no option but to. In their minds they tried to switch off—to ignore the slights of co-workers, not to bridle against the glib cackling of foremen, and, in the case of Indian women, not to fret when they were slapped about by their husbands. Put up with the pain, they told themselves, deal with the pain—the shooting pains up the arms, the corroded hip joints, the back seizures from leaning over sewing machines for too many years, the callused knuckles from handwashing clothes, the rheumy knees from scrubbing the kitchen floor with their husbands' used underpants.
When my parents sat down to watch the wrestling on Saturday afternoons, milky cardamon tea in hand, they wanted to be entertained, they wanted a laugh. But they also wanted the good guy, just for once, to triumph over the bad guy. They wanted the swaggering, braying bully to get his come-uppance. They prayed for the nice guy, lying there on the canvas, trapped in a double-finger interlock or clutching his kidneys in agony, not to submit. If only he could hold out just a bit longer, bear the pain, last the course. If only he did these things, chances were, wrestling being what it was, that he would triumph. It was only a qualified victory, however. You'd see the winner, exhausted, barely able to wave to the crowd. The triumph was mainly one of survival. | Zime u Engleskoj su nekada bile hladne. Mi, pogotovo moji roditelji, smo ih provodili gledajući rvanje. Rvanje, koje su gledali subotom prepodne na svom crno belom televizoru, predstavljalo je kratkotrajan upliv života i boja u njihove inače jednobojne živote. Njihova radnička odeća bila je izbledela, prekrivač na kauču, nepromenjen godinama, bio je izbledeo, njihova sećanja na to kakvi su ljudi bili pre dolaska u Englesku takođe su bledela. Moji roditelji, čitava njihova generacija, protraćili su najbolje godine svog života drnčeći po fabrikama za bednu platu. Život napornog rada, deformisanih kičmi, hroničnog artritisa, grubih ruku. Zagrizli bi usnu i nastavili da trpe bol. Nisu imali drugog izbora. U svojim mislima pokušavali su da se isključe, da ignorišu prezir svojih kolega, da ne prekidaju brbljivost nadzornika i, u slučaju jedne Indijanke, da se ne jadaju kada ih izudaraju muževi. Izdrži bol, govorili su sebi, izbori se sa bolom- probadajućim bolovima u rukama, istrošenim kukovima, kočenjima u leđima uzrokovana saginjanjem nad šivaćim mašinama i previše godina, zglobovima otvrdnelim od ručnog pranja odeće, kolenima reumatičnim od ribanja kuhinjskog poda starim muževljevim gaćama.
Kada bi moji roditelji seli da gledaju rvanje subotom prepodne, sa mlečnim kardamon čajem u ruci, oni su želeli da ih neko zabavi, želeli su smeh. Ali su takođe želeli da dobar momak, makar jednom, pobedi lošeg momka. Želeli su da razmetljivi, bučni siledžija dobije svoje. Molili su se za simpatičnog momka, koji leži na podu ringa, zarobljen u duplom klinču, ili se hvata za svoje bubrege u agoniji, ne predajući se. Kad bi samo mogao još malo da izdrži, podnese bol, zadrži kurs. Da je samo učinio to, bilo je šansi, budući da je rvanje to što jeste, da pobedi. Bila je to, ipak, samo delimična pobeda. Videli biste pobednika, iscrpljenog, jedva u mogućnosti da mahne publici. Trijumf je, većim delom, bio samo jedan način opstanka.
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